Dilani Diva

Why Love can hurt – Sometimes.

About Love
Just as much as joy lies within the bounds of the heart,
There lies pain, So endless and sad and even sometimes awfully bad to a point that we must learn to love -again.

So let us now evolve from this place of unknown fear,
Of a hurting heart and be strong my dear,
For when in your spirit your choice is clear. Rise above the storms,
to live in joy. never fear for love never dies, it lies deep within the folds of our breast.
Just taking a little break. while your heart doth rest
Until you can once more take.
The trob of passion, and feels the joy of life away from strife.
Never fear for then , once again,
True love is here.

I counsel many each day. Some sad, some glad and some even quite angry and mad. They have the right to be. Sometimes even you and I can feel that life has not treated us well. Our lovers don’t seem to understand. ( or so it seems)
 
This simply happens when our lovers or companions are not in the same frame of mind and spirit with you. It is important to remember that it takes a while for energies to get meshed together. It’s like placing to molds of clay and needing them into place. You don’t want them to mix too much for then they will loose their singular color They need to stay apart and yet be as one.
Much like people. You don’t want your love to be just like you. What fun would that be? You would like to be enjoyed loved and adored so you can be the same for them. Ahhh but sometimes that is not what they want. Is It?
Then there is too much of pain. We start to all them names “ Like immature’ or non evolved. ( a couple of the better one’s ) However that is being judgmental. and that is what hurts our spirit most. Yes it is important that our desires are met, however if you can step aside a bit from the emotional saga then it will be easier to see what they have to offer. Then decide if that is what we truly want.

It is like pressing your nose to a mirror all you will see are your big eyes. The whole of you is not seen.I would not like that at all. After all I need to put on my lovely pink lip stick. LOL. It is very important to remember that even though we are drawn to soul connections, and they make us yearn for love in each life time we have to re-learn the connection that is the key. and that needs a little space and time. And sometimes what we find may not be that great. But if you can keep a nice balance of body, mind and spirit you will get the best and give the best and you would have evolved you a higher place without even trying that hard. 

Most of the time this is hard to do. But if we can be aware and mindful of these facts it can be done. Alignment of two spirits need to be worked on . Constantly. For we are all changing. Weather that change is fun or no fun is dependent for a large part on attitude. We are only fooling ourselves when we try to change others. That does not happen . But we can change us.

Let us remember why we got involved in the first place. It was to find true love and joy. That we cannot achieve through constant pain. Pain drops our spirit to depression and anger. both of which is not the greatest state to be in. Specially if it becomes a constant.

Talking to the other person about where they are in their attitude towards the romance will help also  getting a spiritual guidance reading can at this point be invaluable. However one must then take this knowledge and apply it to life.

If they are not ready then give your self some time too. Just enjoy them. Just the time that you are together. That is the best way to know if you still want to be with them in the future. Sometimes it is nothing to do with love, but everything to do with the circumstances that makes relationships dissolve and not evolve.

 If we can understand this in a spiritual way then it will help us to grow within what ever your relationship is.

That is a point of faith and power and truth. So even in the hardest of times true wisdom and growth is absolutely possible. That is the true power of spiritual wisdom. May the wisdom of your spirit remain with you now and always. Take care till we chat again. Blessings D