Dilani Diva

Sometimes life can get a little heavy to all of us. No one is an exception. It is like the natural form of life.The co- mingling of love and pain, joy and tears. One goes hand in had with each other. Ever balancing and ever real.

In my daily counseling I am confronted with many of you who have so much to offer. not only to the world but to yourself, and yet some personal pain takes the place of personal progress.

I have to agree that sometimes it is necessary to embrace this pain and “figure it out “ so to speak. and sometimes it is important to step away from it and take a break.

A good way to do so is think of a famous, hunky totally cute person ( in the film industry – may be ) that you enjoy who is funny charming and makes you laugh.

Then get about 5 movies that will keep you busy and watch them.

You will be amazed at how your desire and the direction of your thoughts gets shifted, and when you come back to your pain it is not the same.

There is a change . There is a sense of bearability, and it is amazing.

Some one I totally enjoy is the “ New Prince of Persia” Jake Gyllenhaal. Personality with a Kick to it. I am sure you will enjoy this talented actor. He kept me up laughing my head off ( and now I am headless – LOL ) It is so encouraging to have essence in all areas of our lives. That beauty and brains is also a great thing. as much as a desire to simply smile.

Check him out on U- Tube. and remember that laughter keeps the seeds of your youth blooming.

Have a better day today. With youthful thoughts and laughter

Always your humble friend.

Dilani