Dilani Diva

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Dilani Diva

LOVE- Seek the truth for yourself.

Even today after all the hum and the drum of life you and I still love to be loved. Some of us are a little more fortunate than others ( or so it may just appear ) However most of us seek true companionship one way or another.

Love is a wonderful thing. Helping our spirit to grow, share give and care. IT is what makes us almost like angels ( sometimes )

The feelings of love are generally evoked by another who you are attracted to and sometimes these feelings are deeply reciprocated. ( YUM !!!! ) other times may not be so.
( GLUM-:(
However the simple fact that you had these feelings ( that is wow situation) that is for sure.

However it is important for us to look at our feelings and some times be real about them. Now this can suck the romance out of the fantasized situation, ( oh yuck ! ) or it may help you to get balance and clarity in your life and that my friend is invaluable. ( good going )

First of all

WHAT YOU CALL -YOUR LOVE !

The wonderful things about feelings are they vibrate at various levels of greatness, joy sadness gladness and even light madness
Each his own we say. Even though someone may draw feelings of love in you they may not feel the same for you. Ahh then why do we feel sad? You have great feelings of love. That is what is truly important. We worry too much sometimes about how others feel and see us. Without looking at what we are here for !
To experience the true essence of love ! and so if you have ever had a loving thought or feeling then enjoy it while you can and be glad of it. If your friend feels the same, then good for him or her. If not …. well too bad for them.

It is important however to come down from our cloud nine and tell it as it is. May be he does like you. Or may be not. Sometimes you may think or you are told that he or she is your true soul mate or that he or she is your spiritual lover or husband or wife…..

All that is good however, titles that such lead to expectancies and when they are not met you end up hurting your heart. So for your own good. try to keep it real. Yes it is important to dream But we have to wake to reality. It is always better that way.
Safer and wiser.
Many people say. “ well he is controlling his feelings “ … hmm may be ! But that is because he or she wants to. No one does anything they are not happy with. Unless forced. So the lack of being in sink with your feelings is just that they are not wanting to be there, Not in the spot you would like them to take. That’s ok too. as long as you realize that and not take it too personally. Most of the time it may have nothing to do with you……

ENJOY THE LOVE

Enjoy your feelings of love. For God is love and being in love and nurturing your mate friend or lover is a wonderful thing. Remember that love come so us from all sides. Friends.sisters mothers brothers. Now they may not all be the romantic kinda love. But they lend us support and a feeling of belonging. which is important.
So feel glad about what you have and enjoy this holiday weekend. Feel the love my friend and learn to smile. For then we are all truly beautiful.

Remember “ It is better to have loved and lost than not have loved at all.”
For if you have loved then you are not a looser you are a winner !

An Ode to love,

A dearest love, Gently nestled in my bosom,
Sing to me a song of spring,
and like a bird. – sing.
Come to me in the wind and rain
and guide my heart away from pain.
Love me with your tender look and touch,
For you have helped me see this world,
with new eyes.
That I love so much.
Let the forest and the glade just sing.
My praises to you.
Even though the hands of time
seems to dance and rhyme
and to morrow with the dawn
My heart may be broken or forlorn,
But in this simple moment in time.
You face like the simple sun,
did shine.
On mine.
On you gentle gentle love.
Never fear that I am not near.
But I thank you from within.
For with you in the memory of my arms
As I walk this world – I will win.

( dedicated to my own love Mr. B)