Focus on Reality

And the high destiny of the individual is to serve rather than to rule, or to impose himself in any other way.

“Albeit Einstein”

There is such great truth in these kind words. If you felt left out, or not treated well by someone, in the near past or even today look at what you have done to make things better for them and realize that you are more in tune with what you were truly here to do.

Gain power and an understanding of a deeper perspective on Life and Move beyond your restrictive thought. Sometimes me cannot control others. But we can create joy within ourselves by looking at our own achievements.

True wealth is not about the money you have in the bank, but in the deeper understanding of your works and your awareness of learning.

Remember why we are here. And you will be blessed.

POEM.

I am here,

We are here but once and we pass through this valley,

With trees and laughter gliding past.

With birds in the air,

With love in the wind,

With a smile from a friend,

A simple joy, that never ends.

Let me look beyond a wall and be.

Good and kind and wise,

in my acts to you,

and in my heart. to me.

Let us remind us my dear,

With love and kindness,

The truth and the reason, For this evolving season …

of why we are here.

How are you today? I hope this not finds you well. I know most of you know me as “Your Psychic” and I am truly blessed to be able to see more into your future. However in the process of it all have you taken time to look at the choices you have made in your life? Are you content with them? Would you like to see a change? What would be your best choice?

My guide and I love to help you to grow in your own awareness and meaning of life. Each of us are unique and it is such a wonderful  blessing to be able to see beyond this human vale.

Most of the time you call me to get predictions and clarity. That is a good thing yes. However maybe it may help us to look at our lives and where we are at and where we are going. There are many paths to be taken. and I feel quite adventurous even talking about it.

Remember it is how we address these paths that bring us true awareness, fulfillment and a deeper meaning of life. It is sometimes a wonderful thing to just be able to be open and questioning with someone who is caring and non judgmental, and believe me my friends I work hard at it.

I am here for you to chat with any time. About anything. It could even be about your horse, your dog or even your cat ! now fancy that !

Lets keep it simple and lets keep it real.

Remember the meaning of life

“Is ever evolving”

So let us evolve not revolve or de-solve.

I am happy to be here for you.

Blessings always.

Dilani Diva.

ECHOES OF THE SPIRIT

♥

The Mercury retrograde gently ebbs by. With a kind deep sort of reflection in each of our mirrors. I hope we have all grown and learned from it’s powerful ebb and flow, and created new paths that lead into a strong and steady future.

“Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Others stay awhile, make footprints on our hearts and we are never, ever the same.”

Anonymous

We will remember

Times of reflection, this time must be for you and me,

Dancing faces light up our lives, our path,

gently ebbing and flowing like the wind, pass me by,

Make me grow from within. make me strong and take me a way,

Oh take me a way from pain and sin.

Like a feather that floated by,

The voices of those we love pass,

and dance in the trees, with the hum of the breeze,

A grand mother lays her head against the gentle clouds that fly,

high in the sky.

For she is an angel now.

For she was beautiful, and I know why.

Why you touched our lives, and with the wind,

In the trees you will now reside,

Deep in my heart even though you are only a memory,

held by the gentle hand,

You  are washed away by those gentle waves,

that glide and sail and rock against the tides of time.

like the memories that slipped from within my hand

to rest and rest,

In a place that we know best.

Like those footsteps in the sand.

May we remember those who have touched our lives with gratitude.

Today. Let us reflect and remember friends, family and those who have passed on to better places. God’s blessings be with them. Now and always.

Dilani Diva

This last month has been a time of deep reflection for some of us. Laying out new ways and new paths. Many of us have been in moments of memories. maybe you called a friend just to say hello. Or heard from an old buddy. We have all brought back the past in some way or another. I hope that you had a feeling of wonder and fulfillment from these refections as I have. Regrets of the past are not really helpful trends of thought. However snap shots of good memories always shape our spirit to be grateful and renews out strength in order to create better tomorrows.

Audio Rendition

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There are two types of people – those who come into a room and say, Well, here I am! and those who come in and say, Ah, there you are !

~Frederick L. Collins

It is interesting how we place our awareness and how it responds to each one of us. A man who truly believes in himself does not have to keep saying to the universe of his arrival but will see what there is around him and learn from what is .
It is the same with love. In who we love and how we love, we can sometimes shift our desire to more of our feeling of want and need even more than the real true aspect of love itself. We can turn our message to a more “self Love”
Like” Does he love me?” – However in true love and feeling of true love and of true life to look at the universe and your lover and say “I wonder how I make him feel” That is indeed a better way of love. For  each of us have our own feelings. We cannot make another feel if they don’t want to feel. However if we can evoke feelings of love in others, even if they own those feelings then we are indeed doing great things. For it is through these feelings deeper awareness will come to being and then the soul eve loves, grows and reaches its best potential.
So today if you are truly happy with who you are. Then recognize your  fellow people and share a act or deed of kindness. For that my friend is what true love is about. To help another reach a better place than when he or she was, when they met you. and remember it is NOT about you but it is about them. For Love is not just a feeling it is also an act, and the balance of both these aspects in your character and personality will set our spirit and awareness to a wonderful place of wisdom and better living.

May the Universe of Love reside in you today and always.

I am here to answer your questions on Love, Money, Career, Life Path, Soul Path and Dream interpretation.

Remember your future is in your hands.
Make the right choices and you can get there.

Mating or Dating ?

For all those -First Dates ♦ The Do’s the Don’ts and the may be-s ♦ from a women’s point of view

IS IT ALL OR NOTHING AT ALL…

Let the rush of spirt fill me with deep anticipation.
Let me feel like flying off a roof,
Doing something foolish … maybe.
I am young again. For my heart flutters.
I wonder what it would be.
Would you feel the flutter in my spirit.
Would I ever know.
How you would feel about me.
I sputter and stutter but outwardly I stand.
Strong and undefeated willing to hold out my hand.
dlani. diva

First dates are always exciting. The anticipation of it all. It is exciting, Is it not? The dressings up and getting ready. Specially for a women. It is interesting how to  day things have changed, Your suiters come right in to your door. In fact into your living room and into your office where ever your computer is. . Smiling away on your screens. In fact there are many ( hopefully ) Not just one. This is a good thing. I think . there are many that have found love through these open door and many who have found the basis of a good fruitful family life filled with abundance.

Today I want to speak to those who are still out there and searching. There are some of us who have done this before and are comfortable in it’s space and then there are a few others who feel a little apprehensive about it all. Whoever you are I hope this episode will help you .

A few things to remember.

• A first date is just that.- “ A first date” -It is not about seeing if this is Mr. Right or Mr Wrong. It is about just seeing who the other person is and seeing if you both can share that moment in space with a few laughs and some good conversation. It takes more than the first few dates for people to really get to know each other. Remember that it is not just a emotional thing. Just as emotions are important. It is a factual thing and the persons actions towards you, what they do and what they say and the sharing of their dreams as they go along takes time. and vise versa. It will take you more than a few minutes to share you dreams with another. So don’t make the first date or the fisrt few dates a heavy affair. Make it light and fun. Think of looking beautiful cos it makes you happy to put on your cute shoes or hat. Enjoy being a women.

• Learn to share information equally. – Sometimes we just LOVE to talk ( ha ha that is so much me, the women) and we forget that the other person has something to say too. So balance the date. Now if he talks too much and you cant get a word in then you know. That’s not going to work. imagine another women in your house. LOL well that can happen. I have a neighbor who cant stop talking at the top of his voice. Our houses are built fairly well apart and still I hear him. I know his wife never talks ( well I am making that up- to make you laugh) but if you don’t like it there is your Que. to make an exit. Gracefully. Yes remember to be graceful. A women without grace is not very attractive.

• If you would like to see him again. Just mention it but don’t make a big deal about it within your self – especially. Remember that it is still the early stages. It is important to have your power and your light shining within. Don’t give it all away at the drop of a hat. Fancy that, at a drop of a hat.

• Remember to chose. Sometimes we just forget. We just need to be needed. We don’t even care for what. Remember that you have a choice. Ask your self that question. “From all of them around me who is the best for me?” now remember that it takes a little time to figure that out. Most of us don’t like to wait. We want our relationships to be like instant puddings. Well that is not a really good thing. Instant pudding does not ever compare to hand made one’s. You should know that. Interestingly time evolves things. It evolves things in a conscious way and in an unconscious way. Remember some one told you about “sleep on it”  – boy we don’t like that very much do we. Sleep on it ! It is sound advice.

• Remember to be Joyful. During the date and after the date. Don’t get stressed out if someone does not like you. Or if he or she does not call you again. Not every one likes every one . God just made it that way. So just by remembering that you are beautiful and joyful you will find your place of happiness within and not just without.

WHEW !!!! Take a break !!!! We don’t want another sermon ( talking to myself- Dilani )

A few don’t on these first dates.

Don’t make it all about you .Try to talk about many things.

• Don’t hang around for too long. It is good to keep a little mystery going. Let him want to get to know you more. Now don’t rush out as you got there give it time to settle in and then enjoy yourself a little and then depart. Remember again to be graceful. and feminine.
• Dress in a way that you are sexy but not distracted with your clothes. wear comfortable things but make is appealing. You don’t want him to keep looking at your chest when he wants to get to know you .First impressions are important. You don’t want him thinking that you were waiting to be grabbed. Also don’t dress like a nun. He would think you should be in a convent. We don’t need that. Wear something that makes you look hot but that you don’t have to worry about. Cos then all your attention and not on your out fit.
• Don’t guzzle down your drink or drink too much . It will give you a buzz and you wont know what on earth you said . Better to have it under control in public. Specially if he is cute and you would like to hang out again.

• Don’t interview him. In other words don’t keep asking very pertinent questions one after the other.  Let the energy flow.  share and give some and take some. Make it a fun time.
• If someone is not interesting you be upfront ( may be later on a phone call or an IM ) and move on be form but fair. After all that is how you want to be treated.

Lastly. Remember that all that we make today in our life becomes a part of our past and the past is like a cushion we rest on. You can make a lumpy cushion or you can make a nice soft one. The stuffing is up to you. So make sure you put some Joy, Love, Compassion and Confidence into your day and your cushion of memories will be wonderful to snooze on.

May the blessings of the universe be with you now and always . It was wonderful to be here with you . Hope to speak to you again soon. Take care and be safe.

Learning to Love

Dearest Friends,

I hope today finds you well. I hope today the sun will give you some laughter. I know the rain will follow sometimes, Yes it does, for me at least. I live out in Oregon. where there is always some rain and some shine. But There is always a day that dawns with the sun peeking out, and I am grateful.

There are many of us that have our love, safely wrapped up in a little cocoon within our heart. Most of the time “ The feeling of Love” is connected Directly to a person. by being connected with this person we experience, (for ourselves ) this wonderful experience or feeling.

It is rather profound and makes our hearts sing. Like the little sun on a cloudy day. It reminds takes us to another realm of realization and  awareness. This feeling of love makes us want to do Good Things, not just for that person but also for ourselves. It makes us want to shop ( that’s me ) Eat cake ( that is me again ) take long walks ( may sometimes, that’s me ) and generally feel good about ourselves.

However just as love can bring joy it can also bring pain. The profound thing about feelings is that we each have our very own feelings. It is truly ours. It relates to all our past experiences and so echoes all our past sentiments. The Feeling of love too bears this sentiment. How wonderfully profound and evolved is that. Each new experience of love or the feeling of it adds to our bring energy and brings to our soul and spirit a new awareness . This new awareness is explored initially through the Heart organ and then the mind organ and then of course the ever evolving spirit.

Sub topic 1 How does this feeling of LOVE help us. ?

It evokes in us an extreme sense of well being that connects our inner spirit to our Bodies and fusses them as one. In one moment of time our soul and body fuses together to give us a brief feeling of what a part of heaven could be like.

The “feeling of love” or “being in love” also makes us closer to what God himself “ the supreme being” – we get a glimpse as to what all that is about .  It is true that each of us has a God Place. For the Spirit of God dwells within each of us and so it also reflects ( at times ) the characteristics of God . This is a wonderful thing, this awareness can surely make our spirits and soul rise above this earth and grow in a most profound way.

Sub Topic 2 – How To Truly love Each Other.

Sometimes we end up judging others and feeling a little more than frustrated with their actions. Most of the time it is because they don’t do the right thing or we are just not happy with the way they handled maters. In other words they are NOT in alinement , with us. This can be viewed in many ways.

• Either they are just plain ol mean or having some underlying reason why they just cant be nice to us. It could be some control issues or they just don’t see it our way cos their experiences are just not what we have had. In each case it is what it is and to dwell on it for so long can only make you mad. There can be healthy variants of opinions and there can be unhealthy arguments over them. Getting in to a fighting match that will only exasperate and create issues. It is better sometimes to speak your truth as you see it and then leave it. If it has a sense of credibility to it or if it rings a true at a later date it will be thought of and accepted in the mind of the other individual, or you and I have to accept the fact that it is not in alignment with with them and be gracious enough to let it go.

• Or they could just not be agreeing with you. Period. So you and I can say. We agree to disagree. Even though in your mind you feel that you are right. You may be so. However we don’t have the right to press that down another’s throat , they must realize this through their own experiences and understanding. And sometimes, just waiting around for them to do so is not a very practical thing to do, and It is better to move on . and realize that we are all very deferent. Find peace with that.

It is apparent that we seem to judge those that we love more than the stranger on the street. We build some expectancies around our friendships and loves and we get a little upset when they don’t comply  or see eye to eye with us.

Then we get a little negative, may be even a little irritated and say that they are just Not being who they should be.Or that they are joust not learning the truth.  Remember they will learn only if they chose to or They may never learn.Or they may never want to learn. Or they may just simply have another point of view .

All of this becomes more bearable and realistic when we realize that there is wonder and beauty in being deferent people. and may be that was one of the reasons why you liked this person or loved this person in the first place.

It is always healthy to have more than one point of veiw. Either way it is better to move way from this feeling of frustration and judgmental, for with it all we learn of feelings and desires directly apposed to the feelings of love and our friendships and ties die faster for it. In the end, it is you that is found standing on the curb feeling not so good, feeling rather left out and demoralized, even on  a sunny day.

So my friends just as the many teachers have said. Learn to love people for who they are and you and I will be much happier.

I will leave you with this quote by one of the great teachers.

“If you judge people, you have no time to love them.”

Mother Theresa

So just take the time to love, learn and grow …… for today is yours and it is best spent with peace and joy and love.

It was wonderful being with you today. Until we meet a gain. May you have a wonderful day.

Blessed be.

Dilani Diva